I’m lucky because I have the option to be a stay at home mom. I mean, I still have my holistic health coaching business and will be working a part-time job (so would that not make me a stay at home mom then?). I’m choosing not to work full-time because daycare is too expensive. Trust me, I looked and I just didn’t feel comfortable handing her off at just 6 weeks old and going back to work.
And, I know there are those of you who have NO CHOICE and I respect you for that wholeheartedly! But, my husband and I made the decision together.
First off, I don’t feel comfortable with them giving her whatever they have in their pantry, using products that contain toxins and being told what to believe. Now, before you jump all over me and get offended, please know these are MY opinions and they aren’t meant to offend anyone. I just prefer what I prefer and that’s it! I’m stating this in the hopes that it won’t hurt anyone’s feelings.
While a daycare would allow exposure to other kids, the world and illnesses, at the same time, my child might be more opt to caught a cold more times than I’d like, whatever I earn at my job would be going to the daycare and I’d miss her way too much (which I know isn’t really a good reason, but it’s how I feel). I also feel like I’d miss milestones due to working an 8-4 job, so I might regret putting her in daycare.
Bottom line, here’s what I think: if you are financially stable and don’t have to put your child in daycare than don’t do it!
Is it hard staying home at day with her? Absolutely.
Are there some days I literally don’t get anything done? Yes, but that was something I accepted when I decided to become a stay at home mom.
People think stay at home moms just sit around all day and watch TV and don’t do anything. WRONG! With a newborn, you are caring for them most of the day, so your time is limited to do anything else.
Some moms prefer to work and get away from their children or simply have no choice due to financial reasons and that’s fine! Everyone is different and this is the path my husband and I chose to take. Honestly, financially, it would have cost more to put her in daycare than to stay home with her.
Is it just as hard as working a job? Yes! Plus, when you’re a mom, there are NO days off. You can’t just “call in sick,” you have to deal with it and sit take care of your little one. And, that’s fine! I love spending time with her. I love getting to know her personality and what she likes and doesn’t like.
I feel as if I’m happier now than I was working full-time. I was miserable sitting at a desk all day. I longed for the days where I’d send time with my daughter and we’d do activities together and now that it’s here, I’m so happy!