“I’m just not sure that there are good guys out there anymore,” my best friend said to me. “I’m actually pretty frustrated."
I assured her that there are still good guys out there. She merely hasn’t met the right guy as of yet. But, one day, she’ll meet him.
She vouched to be single for a whole year and so, I think it was the universe telling her that she needs to abide by her rule. However, I told her not to give up on guys because there are still gentleman out there, but maybe she and other women either need to look a tad closer, lower their expectations or just wait for him to come.
And, so, the guys who are primarily put in the “friend zone” are the ones who get looked past. They’re the ones who will always be there for you, support you no matter what, be your shoulder to lean on and most of all, always listen.
I promise, guys like that still exist.
Maybe you won’t say it at first glance, but I can assure you I have a good husband. His demeanor may tell you otherwise, but if he wasn’t a good guy, I wouldn’t have married him.
He was usually the man women looked past.
He was catfished and even was the guy who girls just went to for an ear. However, to women, he was never boyfriend material.
There are plenty of guys out there like that.
I won’t debate that it’s hard to find a genuine guy. Most guys just want to sleep with you, but then, there are others who just love being in your company. They want companionship.
Most men are immature.
But, that doesn’t mean you should give up on men, but I didn't say "all."
“Don’t give up,” I told my best friend. “You’ll find that guy one day.”
For some women, it might take a little longer to settle down, but it will happen. I’m proof of that. And, I’m here to tell you to keep dating. Also, it occurs when you least expect it. So, do not plan to magically meet a guy.
Don’t over think it. Don’t yearn for a relationship. Just let it happen.